Good news: A ST1050 clutch fits the 955i engine!
Even better: The clutch doesn't slip anymore (at this boost level...)
Clutch friction & seperator plate splines and overal size is identical. The main difference is that the ST1050 friction plates have a larger inner diameter and thinner plates creating room for the 10th friction plate.
Stack consists of:
2x outer friction plate (3.8mm, same as 955i)
8x center friction plate (3.3mm, 0.5mm thinner than 955i)
4x seperator plate (2.0mm, same as 955i)
5x seperator plate (1.6mm, 0.4mm thinner than 955i)
Total stack hight is 50.2mm compared to 50.1mm from the 955i pack
(previous post states friction plate thickness incorrect for the 955i, it should be 3.794)
I think it is possible to make a 11plate clutchpack. If I take 11x 3.3mm friction plates + 10x 1.6mm separators the pack will be 52.3mm, which fits within the basket. The anti-judder spring doesn't fit in the pack anymore, but in my opinion that's acceptable

This may be an option for the future if the clutch starts slipping again.