Well, having got through the first 1000km as quickly as I could, with all the lousy weather (1 month), I was able to take my R into the garage for the first service - and asked them to adjust the suspension to a "softer" setting. They seemed very sceptical that it would work, and were already talking about replacing the suspension with the standard Triple one!! I pointed out that the whole deal with the R was to be able to adjust according to individual tastes - so they did do what I asked - and what a difference
I was sick of trying to miss all the bumps and holes everywhere, for fear of shaking my spine to pieces - now it's dreamlike in comparison - so the smile inside the helmet has got even bigger!
Maybe the standard factory setting is just aimed at blokes who are heavier (on average) than I am, and there's the reason, but who cares, now it's even more fun