I agree that it is not necessary at all to change the crush washer every oil change. Obviously the reason you change it is because it is designed to deform under torque pressure. I don't need a torque wrench but just tighten it until it stops with a 10" socket wrench and give it a little tug. Never had a leak; never lost a drain plug.
For newbies a helpful hint, I hope, would be to buy ONE more crush washer and, when you next change the oil, compare the old washer to the new one. If it has little or no deformation, use it. If you are careful about not using too much macho muscle on the plug a crush washer will last for many oil changes. Over the years I have quite an accumulation of various sized crush washers, one of each, that I never had to use.
Monte
