I myself have similar issues - I like to go and find the managers of menswear sections in department stores and demand an answer as to why they only stock boys clothes.
But I digress. I have found that cortech / tourmaster make some gear suitable for the manlier sized man, and I'm going to be buying one of their setups. I favour the two piece myself, just personal choice. There are 2 lareg mail order places that sell their stuff,
www.shadetreepowersports.com and
www.denniskirk.com. Don't know what their overseas shipping policies are, but you might want to look into them. The 2 piece tourmaster suits pack up pretty small. Once I have tried them out (in the next 2 weeks) I'll shoot you a PM and let you know what I think.