June 29 '05?
Could it be (I know it'll read patronizing and/or simplistic , but...) ... could it be that you are not used to the RIII's feet forward (although mildly so, compared to, say a V-Rod or a Deuce) posture?
If you are NOT or not quite, then it's simply the tip your l/h boot that does not exert enough pressure on the lever. LIFT it from the peg and stomp on the gear lever. Not brutally so, but with decisiveness. OK? The box will still emit a CLUNK! But it'll be a short and... thankful one, and first gear will be on!!!. And then neutral will sort of avail itself with just a soft on-peg foot movement.
Bonesetter Jamie.
[ This message was edited by: Jamie on 2005-08-22 14:10 ]