For all practicality we can't give you setups because any of us that have taken the trouble to properly set ours up, those settings would most likely not work for you for many and varied reasons.
I would suggest going through RaceTech's site as there is a lot of information there. Here is one of the best things you can do.
Properly setting static sag.
Learn what your are doing and why. If you don't you'll be just guessing and as you already found out guessing don't work very well with suspension setups as there are many components that make up the whole to consider.
Hint: you've cranked in way too much pre-load it sounds like thinking that a stiff suspension is a handling suspension. Not true.
Read the article and set the sag properly and take notes. This will give you a baseline to start from then you can make adjustments from there. Start with the sag set on the sport side of normal first than go from there. When you change sag, always do it as in the article. If you don't, again, you're just guessing. You might even want to tinker with a different weight fork oil and amounts. I'd recommend going to 15wt. anyhow.
Let us know how your studying goes.
Don