At the bottom of this page (
http://www.customdynamics.com/headlights.htm) they have a "Fork Clamp Calculator" which uses one of the methods described above.
This is NOT rocket science. Your anorak is entirely optional.
And yes, I can tell the difference between 1 and 2 mm by eye, perhaps because I'm used to the metric system. More than this, I'm smart enough to take several measurements and use the average. If still unsure, I'm also smart enough to find a tool hire shop, or phone my dealer...
Anyway, 43mm, according to
these folks.