I went through something similar. I was looking for a new bike in 03. I was without a bike for a few years.
I was looking at Harley's. I was thinking I should stay away from sport bikes. When I rode them I'm the past I think I pushed it a bit too much. I ended up with a Vrod. I seemed like a good compromise. I didn't like it. The motor was good but the riding position was horrible for that motor. I don't want to ride with a sportbike type motor with my feet forward and a chopped out front end.
I traded it in on a 05 road king. I really like the Road King. Its not trying to be too many different things. It handles well for a large bike, it comfortable, the wife will ride on the back, and there is a place to put your stuff.
While I like the Road King I still remember how much fun it was to ride a sport bike. After looking at almost everything available I narrowed to down to the S3 or a Tuono. I decided on the S3 for a lot of reasons. I bought a black 06.
I have that and the Road King. I think that for me its the perfect combo!