Hi Landshark,
It would be a good idea to remove the headlight for access. When I replaced my lock, I simply drilled out the old grub screw with an undersize drill and then hammered a torx bit in the hole and unscrewed the remainder of the grub screw. (You could use an easyout if you have one to hand)
It's good you mentioned that you are meant to knock the hex head off the the bolt, I didn't know that, but now you've mentioned it, it seems obvious
Thanks
Webby