Ooo! mutley72, that nut sounds bad

with careful use of file, grinder, dremel, junior hacksaw you should be able to split the nut.
If you continue trying to screw it off you may cause more damage to the cam.
To lock up your crank you can put the bike in gear and lock up the back brake,
Or I would use the other end crank nut and do them both to around fifty lbs'
If the head was off you can also bolt a bar across the combustion chambers and pack the pistons.
With the head on, you can use thick string or cord,
you have to get both valves closed (compression stroke) on one cylinder,
with the piston slightly down BTDC
then
fill the chamber with string through the plug hole

the cord stops the piston coming up, you must get the rods coming up in the right direction.
best of luck on that nut.